Part 1: Misrepresentations Addressed
I see a lot of abuse and misrepresentations revolving around how the Father feels about his daughters. We all know that because of transgressing YAH’s initial command, Chuah (Eve) was accursed to bear children in pain, be in desire to her man, and under his rule. [Genesis 3: 11-16] This resulted in all the daughters being in a state of submission and—through lack of understanding—oppression. But, is it always supposed to be this way?
Oftentimes I observe men using this story to oppress their women by overexerting their dominance, and women hating their men as a result. I also see women using this verse as an excuse to be timid, powerless, and not express themselves or chase after their dreams. Why? By the men being the leader, you are submitting to the mission he has NOT that he is to treat you as a prisoner. Your man should love, cherish, and respect you. The partnership should be an environment for continued growth and edification. YAH loves us both. We each have a role to play. And, daughter of Zion, you are more precious in YAH’s sight than ya think. I think we need a change of perspective on our role in this world. How does YAH really feel about his daughters?
ONE. Your man is your gift. A protector. A provider. A lover.
Even though Chuah was a gift to Adam, he was also one to her. When you think about your man, don’t think of him as a dictator in your life. Think of him as your personal protector. YAH gave someone to defend you, uplift you, and bring provision back to your home. That is the life! And I know what you could be thinking, “I can protect myself. I don’t need a guard.” But let me ask you this, what thing of value doesn’t have security? Try just walking up and touching the Queen of England. Let me know how that works for you.
If you grew up with your earthly father in your life, as a Daughter, you knew how precious you were to him. He was soft with you. You could finesse out of a harsh punishment, and normally get everything you wanted. You had babygirl privileges that your male siblings did not receive. SPECIAL, PROTECTED TREATMENT. How much more so does the Heavenly Father feel about us as his daughters? We are his precious babygirls. It makes sense that he set someone near us to be able to preserve our status. What Father would give his daughter someone not fit to preserve, maintain, and edify her?
We thank you YAH.
TWO. Wisdom is Womban.
When Wisdom is referred to in the Scripture, it is feminine. Hmmm. I wonder why? YAH must love, respect, and cherish his Daughters to make one of the greatest qualities you can have feminine.
Enoch 42:1-21 Wisdom found no place where she could dwell, and her dwelling was in Heaven.2 Wisdom went out, in order to dwell among the sons of men, but did not find a dwelling; wisdom returned to her place, and took her seat in the midst of the Angels.
Proverbs 3:13-19 Joyful is the person who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding. For wisdom is more profitable than silver, and her wages are better than gold. Wisdom is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her. She offers you long life in her right hand, and riches and honor in her left. She will guide you down delightful paths; all her ways are satisfying. Wisdom is a tree of life to those who embrace her; happy are those who hold her tightly. By wisdom the LORD founded the earth; by understanding he created the heavens. Proverbs 4:5-8 Get wisdom! Get understanding! Do not forget, nor turn away from the words of my mouth.Do not forsake her, and she will preserve you; Love her, and she will keep you. Wisdom is the principal thing; Therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.Exalt her, and she will promote you; She will bring you honor, when you embrace her.
THREE. Womben are bosses too.
There is no reason why the oppression spirit is graced on our women in terms of not being able to work outside of the house. When did YAH say that? When did YAH tell you that you were unable to be a boss because you are a woman? Let me know. Proverbs 31 is a great depiction of the type of Womban YAH expects us to be.
Proverbs 31: 10-31 10 [b]A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable; and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.1
Does this sound like a woman with her head low? Does this sound like a powerless woman? No. This sounds like a She Boss that gets the business done while at the same time making sure her household is in order. (Which back then, was the same thing. You worked to build and maintain your house both financially and literally.
I think we have to re-evaluate how we think the Most High feels about us. How do Fathers generally feel about their daughters? Just because some people have manipulated the message of the Most High, doesn’t mean that He doesn’t love us and cherish us. He does. Fathers always have a soft spot for their babygirls. Can you relate?
While we are waiting to be avenged in the Kingdom (lol), have patience with your counterparts, peers, and the world itself. Your time is coming. And with time comes more understanding. Stay righteous. Stay wise. Stay virtuous. And Stay Ivriyah.
Shalom, hunnies. 🤎